--- title: HOW TO DEAL WITH DIFFICULT CUSTOMERS description: "Dealing with difficult customers can be… well, difficult!\n\nIf you and your team find yourselves in less-than-pleasant shopper interactions, having a plan is useful so you are better equipped to handle these situations with ease and grace.\n\nPrep yourself mentally – Having the right mental attitude will help prevent your buttons from getting pushed and enable you to respond in a calm and professional manner. Remind yourself that the shopper isn’t necessarily mad at you, but at the situation.\n\nReally listen to the customer and empathise with them – Put yourself in their shoes and understand that they’re having a difficult time as well. This will help you be more patient and compassionate, and ultimately handle the situation successfully.\n\nBe discreet – If possible, don’t deal with the situation in a public place, like the sales floor. Invite the customer to speak to you privately (such as your office) and go from there.\n\nBe aware of your non-verbal cues – What you DON’T say speaks volumes. Be mindful of the non-verbal cues that you give off. Actions such as rolling your eyes, looking bored, and pointing your fingers, can aggravate the situation.\n\nCompensate for their discomfort if necessary – Taking this step isn’t always necessary and depends on the situation. 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If you and your team find yourselves in less-than-pleasant shopper interactions, having a plan is useful so you are better equipped to handle these situations with ease and grace. **Prep yourself mentally** – Having the right mental attitude will help prevent your buttons from getting pushed and enable you to respond in a calm and professional manner. Remind yourself that the shopper isn’t necessarily mad at you, but at the situation. **Really listen to the customer and empathise with them** – Put yourself in their shoes and understand that they’re having a difficult time as well. This will help you be more patient and compassionate, and ultimately handle the situation successfully. **Be discreet** – If possible, don’t deal with the situation in a public place, like the sales floor. Invite the customer to speak to you privately (such as your office) and go from there. **Be aware of your non-verbal cues** – What you DON’T say speaks volumes. Be mindful of the non-verbal cues that you give off. Actions such as rolling your eyes, looking bored, and pointing your fingers, can aggravate the situation. **Compensate for their discomfort if necessary** – Taking this step isn’t always necessary and depends on the situation. 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